Voyeur - what to watch out for

This may not be a classic article about how to defend yourself against a voyeur, but a general one about what the word itself means, who it can be, and what to really watch out for if it grows into something less secure. But you would be surprised, because part of voyeurism is already in most of the population and it just excites us.

What is it?

This is a kind of aberration, for example, when a man watches a woman or couple at a certain intimate moment. Whether it's masturbation or straight sex, it doesn't matter. I started again with a man, because this kind of fetish or perversion is practiced by most men, with only a small percentage of it occupied by women, but of course there are those among us. Therefore, most of the things mentioned in the article apply to both genders and even here we do not have to make any significant differences. We're human, after all. Most people are excited to watch strange sex, but that's why porn is so popular. Watching erotic videos online increases every year. I don't think it is necessary to argue that porn or erotic magazines have become of interest to us as a child. Between the age of ten and fifteen, we begin to discover our body, which has not yet told us what it can and wants to do in the future. At this age, sex itself is a taboo and we perceive it as something forbidden, so it tempts us to spy from behind the door, secretly observing what we must not and is for adults only. Certainly when you feel in your younger skin, these feelings will return to you. You may also be nostalgic. Of course, it is true that this generation of children is spoken quite differently, and they start having sex surprisingly early, as if we were returning to the Middle Ages, when they had their wives or groom for fifteen years. Watching porn is our common part, and it doesn't even have to be an addiction, so you don't have to feel bad about being caught watching a hot video. Women, therefore, be a little understanding. It's not because a guy is no longer interested in his wife, or feels less attractive to him. It's just because he likes to watch another couple or lesbian while having sex, or some woman while masturbating. They may be doing something that tempts him to try and you reject it, he is afraid to tell you, or he simply does not want to do it, but at least he is excited to watch it. Such cases are an incredible amount when you just need to release a little steam and life goes on.

Watch where you have sex

Let's say that this is really a normal and safe kind of voyeurism. But it could also be a rather personal observation when someone is looking at you and you don't even know about it. Such more common situations may arise in public places, but most people are just attracted by the fact that someone can even look at them and it excites them. But often if you have sex near the window, but you don't have curtains or blinds, someone can watch you. He can do it well, he can satisfy himself, shoot you. Certainly such a finding would not be very pleasant, so it is necessary to watch out where you have sex and at least whether or not you have light and blinds turned on. Similar situations arise in large and in nature. You know it. Natural swimming pool, lake. You are there alone with your girlfriend or boyfriend, or even your husband, or just by chance you met someone, jumped a spark and started to pass it on passionately. You assume nobody's there, because you've been there alone for hours, and it's far from some main road or a generally forgotten area. But what if someone is still watching you behind the bush? The person in question already has his pants down and either he would like to join him or he can do it in the place where he is hidden. In this case, we can already argue about security. Of course, a person in a shrub or behind a tree can be perfectly fine and wouldn't hurt a fly, but it just excites him. But what about a dangerous individual? There is no specific advice about this, because forbidding sex in such direct sex scenes by the water or in the forest would be really sad. But I guess it sounds good to be a quickie. Certainly you both enjoy it and if the tender half is not finished, so you finish it at home in peace and duvet.

To not only talk about pleasant sex erotic things, so unpleasant in terms of voyeurism. It does not have to be just someone who likes to watch people during sex, we would understand it, at least they joined. But it can also be a certain mental disorder, where the individual secretly watches people in different, not just intimate scenes. For example, changing, washing where you don't even have to be naked. Even here, however, the voyeur usually masturbates, but it is only slightly questionable what it can excite so much. Maybe really just the feeling of watching, but with similar things everyone should be more careful. However, there are thousands of videos on the internet where people are filming a secret camera and they don't even know about it, so you could do it without hurting anyone and you're especially at home.